Halloween
Around the time I was in second or third grade, my family stopped doing Halloween. A family tragedy led to my parents believing that Halloween was Satan’s high holy day, and while Christians could not be possessed, we could be oppressed, so better to not give Satan an opening.
To this day my parents are convinced that my sister and I did not miss out, or feel like we did, and I suspect my sister would agree. I remember that despite the fact my parents bought us the candy–candy corn and pumpkins were just fall candy and there as nothing inherently Halloween-y, apparently, about Halloween bite sized candy, especially when you got it on discount on November 1st.
But I remember wishing there were another holiday where we could wear costumes, because, come on, costumes!
I remember having to sit out class parties, but at least I could read, so that wasn’t super horrible, except, you know, cupcakes and candy and chocolate and stuff.
And I remember getting so frustrated explaining that “high holy day” did not mean I thought it was Satan’s birthday!
I wish I were kidding.
I remember thinking “fall festivals” were horrible because it was church’s doing Halloween but pretending not to. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, on duck day, but insists it’s just a water fowl, it’s probably a duck.
We attended, only once thankfully!, a “Hallelujah Night” which was meant to be a Halloween alternative. We wore costumes, but they all looked the same because well, you had to be a Biblical character, and I hadn’t at like 12, met Sandra yet to get the idea to do Jael! All I really remember of that night as the indoctrination about just how horribly satanic Halloween was because it dates back to European pagans who clearly worshiped Satan because they didn’t know any better.
Now, I love Halloween, even if it’s not a big deal here in Germany, and I wish I’d done it as a kid. I don’t believe in Satan. And I find the way my religion has literally demonized the indigenous European religions–and you know most non-Christian religions to be a shameful part of church history (and often present). So I guess this is just one more way that that was really a previous life.
I wouldn’t go back, except maybe to tell myself to be something more awesome than Glinda for my last childhood Halloween. Like maybe Elphaba.
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